Work toward a shared understanding of the project from all angles, and toward a consensus on what will make for the strongest and best result (not necessarily 100% agreement).
Toe-stepping to Two- stepping!
All sides should be willing to compromise and discover common values.
“Good consultation is community building. As we work through a pro-cess the mountains of differences get whittled down to a place of equi-librium and we feel like we have accomplished something together. We now share something that we never would have thought we shared.”